You can learn to recognize your baby's signals before they go.

Start from day one—so you can work with their natural awareness instead of teaching them to ignore their body.

Most parents wait for "readiness" at age 2 or 3—then fight habits their child has already learned. There's a gentler way that starts earlier and skips the power struggle entirely.

I was shocked, too!

Then I learned why it worked—and realized every parent can do this.

This was my actual social media post after my

first time trying the method when I was a brand new parent.

All the steps I took that are grayed out in the pic above are included in the book.

The Partnership Approach:

Why Starting Early Is Actually Easier

Babies are born with an awareness of their bodies. From day one, they know when they need to go. But when we ignore those signals for two or three years, they stop noticing them too.

By age 2 or 3, you're not teaching your child something new. You're asking them to reconnect with signals they've learned to tune out. To suddenly care about something their body has been doing automatically in a diaper for years. And that's why "potty training" at age 3 often turns into a battle. You're working against learned habits instead of with natural development.

This Approach Works Differently

Your Child Retains Their Body Awareness

You start paying attention from day one—so your child never disconnects from what their body is already communicating. No elaborate schedules. No special equipment required. Just observation and response.

When you catch a signal and offer the potty, your baby learns: "Oh, this feeling means something. When I communicate this, someone responds." Over time, that builds into a pattern. Then a habit. Then independence. No bribes needed. No charts. No power struggles over something that should be natural.

The Bonus Advantage

Reducing the cost

Most families using this approach finish by 18-24 months. In fact, until the 1950s, most children were potty-trained by 18 months! Not because they pushed harder—because they paid attention earlier and never had to undo years of learned disconnection.

The average American family spends around $1,000 per year on diapers, and the average age to get out of them is now closer to age 3, which means it's costing an extra $1000+ in diapers when parents wait.